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List 30 things that make you happy.

Happiness is subjective. What makes on person happy might be inconsequential to another. But here is my list of 30 things that make me happy:

1. My kids

2. My extended family

3. Good friends

4. Being loved

5. Giving love

6. Knowing my “why”

7. Peace

8. Self-care

9. Being authentic

10. Speaking my mind

11. Connecting with new people

12. Being present

13. Security

14. Financial stability

15. Appreciation

16. Leaving people and things better than I found them

17. Reaching my goals

18. Understanding myself

19. Knowing my worth

20. Saying “no”

21. Walking away from things that don’t serve me

22. Continuous growth

23. Learning

24. Doing work I love

25. Traveling

26. Eating right

27. Exercising

28. Emotional wellness

29. Spontaneity

30. Writing, of course

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What notable things happened today?

Today, I opened my eyes and found myself in my comfy bed. I had a roof over my head, food in my kitchen, a car in my garage, and clothing in my closet. I had air in my lungs and good overall health. My kids are happy and healthy and our future are bright.

Being blessed with the gift of life… another chance to do what I might have done and be what I might have been is the most notable thing that’s happened to me (and you) today. I am grateful.

If humans had taglines, what would yours be?

My life has been all about overcoming insurmountable odds. Everything that was meant to destroy me has empowered me and built resilience.

I’ve learned how to have difficult conversations, take calculated risks, and find the silver lining in every situation I face. No matter how fearful I am, I always find a way to be brave and push through courageously.

My tagline would be “feel the fear and do it anyway”.

What are you good at?

The thing that I am most gifted at is being exactly who I am. My healing journey taught me that being my authentic self is my superpower. People that genuinely like me and care about me gravitate toward me. Those that don’t value who I am will exit stage left as they should.

Using your God-given talent of being who you were meant to be is a great way to understand that some things are intended for you while others are absolutely not meant to be yours. What’s for me is for me and I am OK with that 💗. 

What’s a job you would like to do for just one day?

I’d like to hear what’s really going on deep inside people’s minds. It would likely shift my view of the world around me dramatically.

What are your favorite brands and why?

One of my favorite brands is Fenty beauty. It’s not just the fact that they have great products that I absolutely love, but also the founder’s values and ethics.

Rhianna gives back to her communities, both here and abroad. She stands up for various causes that speak to me and tries to do the right thing whenever possible.

She’s relatable and human and seems like the type of person that would stop and talk to a stranger on the street. I just look at products. I need to know who is behind the product.

What gives you direction in life?

There was a time in life where I ignored that little voice in my head or that gut feeling that I was headed in the wrong direction. It always led to unfavorable outcomes.

Nowadays, my first point of reference when looking for direction in life is my own intuition. I have learned to trust myself fully and do what feels right for me. Of course, I do my best to analyze, and make the most educated decisions possible, but if it doesn’t sit well in my spirit, it’s not happening. 

Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?

I always remember that whatever I put out into the world always comes back, so I try my best to be good to people and do good in every space I enter.

I’m such a strong believer that I named the 3-part series, ‘Retribution’, that I wrote as follows:

1. What Goes Around…

2. … Comes Around

3. Full Circle

Do the right thing, even when no one else is looking.

When do you feel most productive?

I feel most productive when I am well rested, emotionally, balanced, physically, healthy, and genuinely enjoying what I’m doing. Passion and purpose breed productivity for me.

What topics do you like to discuss?

The topics that I like to discuss depend on who I’m talking to. Anything that brings value, uplifts, inspires, and/or builds positive momentum is on the table.

I like to leave anyone listening to me better than I found them. Whether it is a kind word, information that they really need, or just confirmation that they are on the right track, positive interactions just make me feel good.

Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?

Back in 2014 I was separated from my husband and had an opportunity to get divorced and move on with my life. I allowed him to gaslight his way back into the relationship and 10 years later, I am finally divorcing him. Had I let him go back then, I could’ve saved myself years of wasted time and heartache. But better late than never, I guess. Sometimes things don’t happen in our own timing, but they do happen exactly as they should. So do I really regret it? No. There were many lessons and blessings in the last 10 years. I’m looking forward to what the future holds!

Describe one positive change you have made in your life.

I started trusting my own intuition first. If something doesn’t feel right, I go with that feeling and just say no. I only do things that serve me and contribute to my evolution into the best version of me.